The Ask Beatty Podcast
THE ASK BEATTY SHOW is hosted by Beatty Cohan, MSW, LCSW, AASECT, a nationally recognized psychotherapist, sex therapist, author of for Better for Worse Forever: Discover the Path to Lasting Love, advice columnist for Dan’s Papers, national speaker and national radio and television expert guest. Her show is about EMPOWERMENT. Beatty discusses mental issues, sexuality, relationships and newsworthy subjects and teaches listeners the things that we all need to DO to maximize our physical and emotional well-being, despite the stressors of life. Her mantra..ACKNOWLEDGE, ADDRESS AND RESOLVE AS BEST AS WE CAN THE THINGS THAT GET IN THE WAY OF OUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS. Beatty has a private practice in New York City and East Hampton.
Episodes
Tuesday Jul 27, 2021
Tuesday Jul 27, 2021
1. Are you living your life in ways that are in your best interest? If not, why not? And more importantly, are you willing to DO something about it?
2. NYC Surgeon Seeking Divorce...claims beauty queen wife led a secret life as high-priced call girl. BUYER BEWARE!!!
3. My book for Better for Worse Forever: Discover the Path to Lasting Love will teach you EXACTLY how to assess who's right or wrong for you BEFORE committing to any serious relationship. It will change the way that you look at relationships forever. It will empower, educate and above all KEEP YOU SAFE!!!
MY GUEST NEXT WEEK IS ROBIN A. LIEBERMAN, AUTHOR OF SEARCHING FOR SEPTEMBER, PUBLISHED BY THE THREE TOMATOES BOOK PUBLISHER.
YOU CAN CALL ROBIN LIVE AT 888-874-4888.!!
Tuesday Jul 13, 2021
Tuesday Jul 13, 2021
1. Are you getting in your own way in your life and in your relationships? Take my test and find out.
YOU'RE NEVER TOO OLD AND IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO HAVE GREAT SEX...WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER!
2. How are we really doing in the bedroom?
3. My guest today is Diana de Vegh, an 83 year-old legally blind psychotherapist in private practice in New York City and writer of the Modern Love column in the New York Times (July 27th 2021) WHY WON'T ANYONE HELP ME IN THIS SEX SHOP?
TO LIFE AND LOVE AND GREAT SEX AT EVERY AGE AND STAGE OF LIFE!
xxBEATTY
Tuesday Jun 29, 2021
Tuesday Jun 29, 2021
1. Living our lives in ways that are truly in our best interest. Are you onboard???
2. Sex and sex toys at 80? Why not? Discussion of an article in the New York Times
2. NEVER MAKE A MISTAKE LOVE AGAIN. This is a preview presentation that I will be giving on June 29th at the East Hampton Library from 6-7 p.m. EST.
Tuesday Jun 22, 2021
Tuesday Jun 22, 2021
ASK BEATTY
1. DAILY reminders to ensure that you are living your life in ways that are in your best interest.
2. My guest today is Dr. Christopher Macklin, Author, Health and Wellness Practitioner and Medical Intuitive Healer, Paranormal Conduit. This is a not to be missed interview. For more information about Dr. Macklin go to his website at www. globalenlightenproject.com.
TO LIFE AND LOVE,
xxBEATTY
Tuesday Jun 15, 2021
Tuesday Jun 15, 2021
1. How happy are you with your lifestyle, work, relationships with family, friends and colleagues, financial position, health and diet? And if changes and modifications are necessary, what are you planning to DO about it? What is your strategy?
2. My guest today is Jerome Gold, author of 17 books. Today we discussed his book SEX THE LOVE STORY about Bob and Jen high school seniors and sweethearts at the end of the Eisenhowever era. His book is beautifully written and describes the ups and downs of love. Read it. You'll love it!
Tuesday Jun 08, 2021
Tuesday Jun 08, 2021
1. Why is doing what is in our interest so hard? Ways to learn to get out of your own way.
2. NEVER MAKE A MISTAKE IN LOVE AGAIN. Are you tired of relationships that go nowhere and frustrated that you always end up in the same destructive, self-destructive and unhappy situations? More importantly, are you ready to finally DO something about this sorry state of affairs?
3. NAOMI OSAKA......AND WHAT SHE'S TAUGHT US ABOUT SUCCESS.
Tuesday May 25, 2021
Tuesday May 25, 2021
1. Beatty's daily reminders that will help you make your life and relationships healthier and more satisfying. Just say YES to doing what is in your best interest!!!
2. GREY DIVORCE- NO ONE EVER REALLY KNOWS WHAT GOES ON BEHIND CLOSED DOORS
An increasing number of older couples are deciding to divorce after many years of marriage. The divorce rate has roughly doubled since the 1990's for American adults ages 50 and over. And the divorce rate for people over 50 who have been married more than once is 2.5 times higher than those who have been coupled with the same person throughout their life. .Why is this happening? And what should women in particular DO to protect themselves emotionally, financially and legally?
My 2 guests today are STACY FRANCIS, CFP, CDFA ,CES, a nationally recognized financial expert and President and CEO Of Francis Financial. She is a Certified Planner (CFP) and Certified Divorce Financial analyst (CDFA) who provides advice t
o women going through transitions, such as divorce, widowhood and sudden wealth. She is also the founder of Savvy Ladies, a nonprofit that has already provided free personal finance education and resources to over 15,000 women. (francisfinancial.com)
LISA ZEIDERMAN, Esq, CFL, is a Matrimonial Attorney and Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP. She is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters for high-net-worth individuals. Named a 2020 10 Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, Ms Zeiderman is also a founding member of the American Academy of Certified Financial Litigators and a member of the panel for Attorneys for Children. (lz@mzw-law.com)
Tuesday May 18, 2021
Tuesday May 18, 2021
1. CROSSING the T's and DOTTING the I's. My weekly reminders of ALL of the things that we can DO every DAY that can help improve the quality of our life and relationships. Are you on-board?
2. THERAPY CHOICE- How Home Assessments Keep Seniors Safe, Independent and Empowered In-Home
My guests today are Mike Gaskiewski, Occupational Therapist and Co-Owner with his brother Ed Gaskiewski, Physical Therapist, of THERAPY CHOICE and Greg Donahue, Executive Director of THERAPY CHOICE
In less than 2 decades, the graying of America will be inescapable. Older adults are projected to outnumber kids for the first time in U.S. history. By 2060, nearly one in four Americans will be 65 years and older, the number of 85-plus will triple and the country will add a half million centenarians. With this swelling number of older adults, the country will see greater demands for healthcare, in-home caregiving and assisted living facilities
GOOD NEWS
My guests have devoted their professional lives to finding ways that seniors can remain in their own home for as long as possible, despite the reality of the physical and mental challenges that we all face as we grow older.
This interview could change the quality of your life or a loved one's FOREVER!
THERAPY CHOICE WEBSITE: www.therapychoice.net
3. Imagine going to a drugstore and buying shampoo and then being able to see a therapist....all in one trip...all at the same place! Learn about how pharmacies are going into the business of offering therapy to their customers.
TO LIFE!!
xxBEATTY
Tuesday May 11, 2021
Tuesday May 11, 2021
1. GOOD NEWS!! Research is telling us that more and more people are turning to therapists and asking for help. In fact drugstores around the country including CVS, Walmart and Walgreens are setting up walk-in sessions for mental health treatment. And in the aftermath of the police killing of George Floyd in Minneapolis last year, mental health experts across the country say they have seen African-Amerians, whose skepticism of therapy has been documented by research, seeking it in growing numbers.
SO IF YOUR DEPRESSION, ANXIETY AND OTHER MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES ARE GETTING IN THE WAY OF YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS, DO WHAT'S IN YOUR BEST INTEREST AND GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO REACH OUT AND ASK FOR HELP.
2. AFRICAN AMERICANS ARE EXPERIENCING A TSUNAMI OF INFORMATION AND NEGATIVE IMPACTS ON THEIR MENTAL HEALTH. THERE ARE SIMPLY TOO MANY TRAUMATIC, VIOLENT AND RACIALLY CHARGED SITUATIONS IMPACTING AFRICAN AMERICANS MENTAL HEALTH.THE PANDEMIC HAS FURTHER IMPACTED MENTAL HEALTH CONCERNS THAT INCLUDES DEPRESSION, ANGER, ANXIETY, LONLINESS AND ISOLATION.
MY GUEST ON THE ASK BEATTY SHOW ON THE PROGRESSIVE RADIO NETWORK IS COLETTE WINLOCK. COLETTE IS A PUBLISHED AUTHOR, HER 1ST NOVEL UNDOING CRAZY DEALS WITH THE EFFECTS OF RACISM AND DEPRESSION ON AN AFRICAN AMERICAN FAMILY LIVING IN OAKLAND AND IS CURRENTLY WORKING ON HER SECOND NOVEL.
SHE HAS WORKED WITH MENTAL HEALTH AND SUBSTANCE ABUSE PREVENTION AND EARLY INTERVENTION SERVICES FOR OVER 40 YEARS. FOR 10 YEARS SHE WAS THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR FOR OAKLAND, CA. HEALTH AND HUMAN RESOURCE EDUCATION CENTER'S BLACK WOMEN'S MEDIA AND WELLNESS PROJECT AND WORKED FOR 5 YEARS AT THE NATIONAL BLACK ALCOHOLISM COUNCIL, CA. CHAPTER.
COLETTE SERVED AS THE HEALTH DIRECTOR FOR THE BAY AREA BLACK UNITED FUND FOR 8 YEARS, WHERE SHE HEADED UP THE HARRIET TUBMAN CRITICAL MASS HEALTH CONDUCTORS AND THE BAY AREA AFRICAN AMERICAN HEALTH SUMMIT. COLETTE HOLDS DEGREES IN KINESIOLOGY AND CULTURAL ANTHROPOLOGY. SHE IS IN MULTIPLE SPORTS HALL OF FAMES FOR TRACK AND FIELD AND AN INDUCTEE IN THE WOMEN'S HALL OF FAME.
THESE ARE SOME OF THE ISSUES THAT WE WILL BE DISCUSSING:
1. HOW DOES SYSTEMIC RACISM AFFECT AFRICAN AMERICAN INDIVIDUALS AND FAMILIES ON A DAY TO DAY BASIS?
2. WHAT IS IT LIKE TO BE PULLED OVER AND STOPPED BY THE POLICE BECAUSE OF THE COLOR OF YOUR SKIN? LET'S TALK ABOUT THE IMPACT THAT THIS HAS ON PEOPLE'S MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING.
3. WHAT DO YOU FEEL ARE THE MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS OF THE BLACK LIVES MATTER SOCIAL MOVEMENT? DO YOU FEEL THAT PEOPLE ARE STARTING TO FEEL A SENSE OF EMPOWERMENT!!
4. SOME PEOPLE FEEL THAT USING THE PHRASE BLACK LIVES MATTER INSTEAD OF ALL LIVES MATTER NEGATES THE FACT THAT INDEED ALL LIVES DO MATTER. HOW DOES USING THE TERM BLACK LIVES MATTER FURTHER THE STRUGGLE FOR RACIAL EQUALITY?
5. WE ARE FINALLY SEEING MORE BLACK AND BROWN FACES IN COMMERCIALS, ON TELEVISION SHOWS IN THE MOVIES AND IN POLITICS. DO YOU THINK THAT THIS IS MAKING AFRICAN AMERICANS FEEL MORE HOPEFUL ABOUT BEING ABLE TO 'MAKE IT' IN WHAT HAS BEEN A TRADITIONALLY WHITE MEDIA AND POLITICAL WORLD?
6. DO YOU THINK THAT BOTH BLACKS AND WHITES ARE STARTING TO WANT TO COME TOGETHER AS HUMAN BEINGS OR DO YOU FEEL THAT THERE IS AN INCREASING DESIRE ON ALL FRONTS TO CONTINUE TO WANT TO LIVE SEPARATELY?
7. NOW THAT WHITE SUPREMACY IS BROADLY EXPOSED IN THIS CENTURY, WILL IT BECOME NORMALIZED AND DECONSTRUCTED?
8. WHAT IS VICARIOUS TRAUMA AND CAN YOU INTERVENE?
Tuesday May 04, 2021
Tuesday May 04, 2021
1. Daily Reminders for Living Your Life In Ways That Are In Your Best Interest. EDUCATION IS THE KEY YO EMPOWERMENT IN ALL FACTS OF OUR LIVES!
2. My guest today is BETH BATTAGLINO, RN-C, CEO of HEALTHYWOMEN, the nation's leading independent, nonprofit health information source for women. Its mission is to educate women to make informed health choices for themselves and their families by providing objective, research-based health information. To learn more, please visit HealthyWomen.org.
3. When Best Friends Become Platonic Spouses. A conversation with Sociologist Jim Vrettos, host of The Radical Imagination on MNN.
To Life and Love and Empowerment,
xxBEATTY